他是一个人来的
tā shì yí ge rén lái de
那我们就先安顿好
nà wǒ men jiù xiān ān dùn hǎo
再把孩子接过来也好
zài bǎ hái zi jiē guò lái yě hǎo
没想到之后再问他
méi xiǎng dào zhī hòu zài wèn tā
他总是敷衍我
tā zǒng shì fū yǎn wǒ
今天推明天
jīn tiān tuī míng tiān
明天推后天
míng tiān tuī hòu tiān
总跟我说快了快了
zǒng gēn wǒ shuō kuài le kuài le
我觉得他根本就不想孩子
wǒ jué de tā gēn běn jiù bù xiǎng hái zi
根本就不希望我们一家人团聚
gēn běn jiù bù xī wàng wǒ men yī jiā rén tuán jù
我真的受不了了
wǒ zhēn de shòu bù liǎo le
就只好搬出去了
jiù zhǐ hǎo bān chū qù le
你不打算跟聂曦过啦
nǐ bù dǎ suàn gēn niè xī guò la
暂时先过不下去了
zàn shí xiān guò bu xià qù le
不是阿美 你得
bú shì ā měi nǐ de
你得想清楚
nǐ de xiǎng qīng chǔ
分居可是一件大事儿啊
fēn jū kě shì yī jiàn dà shì ér a
我记得虞薰跟我说过
wǒ jì de yú xūn gēn wǒ shuō guò
and the child might feel unwell,
so he would bring the child by plane.
But when we arrived in Taipei,
he came alone.
I thought
we could settle in first
and then bring the child over.
Every time I asked him after that,
he just brushed me off—
putting it off
day after day.
Always telling me it will be soon.
I feel like he doesn't
care about the child
and doesn't want our family
to be together.
I really couldn't take it,
so I had to move out.
You're not going to
stay with Nie Xi anymore?
I can't continue for now.
We are living apart.
Living apart?
Wait, Mei.
You have to think carefully.
Living apart is a serious matter.
I remember Yuxun told me that
at that time it was Nie Xi
who insisted on coming to Taiwan,
so he left the child in Fuzhou.
And he even told us that this was done
with your consent.
and the child might feel unwell,
so he would bring the child by plane.
But when we arrived in Taipei,
he came alone.
他是一个人来的
tā shì yí ge rén lái de
I thought
那我想
nà wǒ xiǎng
we could settle in first
那我们就先安顿好
nà wǒ men jiù xiān ān dùn hǎo
再把孩子接过来也好
zài bǎ hái zi jiē guò lái yě hǎo
and then bring the child over.
Every time I asked him after that,
没想到之后再问他
méi xiǎng dào zhī hòu zài wèn tā
he just brushed me off—
他总是敷衍我
tā zǒng shì fū yǎn wǒ
putting it off
今天推明天
jīn tiān tuī míng tiān
day after day.
明天推后天
míng tiān tuī hòu tiān
Always telling me it will be soon.
总跟我说快了快了
zǒng gēn wǒ shuō kuài le kuài le
I feel like he doesn't
care about the child
我觉得他根本就不想孩子
wǒ jué de tā gēn běn jiù bù xiǎng hái zi
and doesn't want our family
to be together.
根本就不希望我们一家人团聚
gēn běn jiù bù xī wàng wǒ men yī jiā rén tuán jù
I really couldn't take it,
我真的受不了了
wǒ zhēn de shòu bù liǎo le
so I had to move out.
就只好搬出去了
jiù zhǐ hǎo bān chū qù le
You're not going to
stay with Nie Xi anymore?
你不打算跟聂曦过啦
nǐ bù dǎ suàn gēn niè xī guò la
I can't continue for now.
暂时先过不下去了
zàn shí xiān guò bu xià qù le
We are living apart.
我们分居了
wǒ men fēn jū le
Living apart?
分居了
fēn jū le
Wait, Mei.
不是阿美 你得
bú shì ā měi nǐ de
You have to think carefully.
你得想清楚
nǐ de xiǎng qīng chǔ
Living apart is a serious matter.
分居可是一件大事儿啊
fēn jū kě shì yī jiàn dà shì ér a
I remember Yuxun told me that
我记得虞薰跟我说过
wǒ jì de yú xūn gēn wǒ shuō guò
at that time it was Nie Xi
who insisted on coming to Taiwan,
so he left the child in Fuzhou.
And he even told us that this was done
with your consent.