How to pronounce "hierarchy"

Marisa Franco: Now, as an expert on friendship,

I'm up against a lot because of the hierarchy

that a lot of our cultures place on love, right?

With familial love at the top, with romantic love at the top,

and with platonic love, friendship love, really at the bottom.

And with so many countries,

people feeling so lonely and so disconnected,

I believe that if we leave friendship at the bottom of this hierarchy,

it's like there's gold at our feet that we're treating as concrete.

And so why are friendships so key?

Well, our bodies have always known

that we need an entire community to feel whole.

And just being around a spouse, for example,

only surfaces one side of ourselves.

So maybe the part of me that likes to garden or do yoga

will begin to wither away if my spouse, for example,

doesn't like these activities.

But then when I'm around a friend,

I can garden and plant my pothos with them

or around another friend that I can [do] downward facing dog with.

And I feel my entire identity, accordion outward,