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well the uh Columbus Dispatch said that
well the uh Columbus Dispatch said that
well the uh Columbus Dispatch said that I'm here to make you cry not really um
I'm here to make you cry not really um
I'm here to make you cry not really um this is a story of Hope and healing and
this is a story of Hope and healing and
this is a story of Hope and healing and how one finds their voice um but what
how one finds their voice um but what
how one finds their voice um but what we're really going to talk about is
we're really going to talk about is
we're really going to talk about is human trafficking
human trafficking
human trafficking um and I'm going to tell you a secret in
um and I'm going to tell you a secret in
um and I'm going to tell you a secret in this time too the secret is that most of
this time too the secret is that most of
this time too the secret is that most of you don't know that this is a silent
you don't know that this is a silent
you don't know that this is a silent epidemic among our American Youth and
epidemic among our American Youth and
epidemic among our American Youth and the secret also is that I didn't know I
the secret also is that I didn't know I
the secret also is that I didn't know I didn't know what happened to me all
didn't know what happened to me all
didn't know what happened to me all those years ago was called human
those years ago was called human
those years ago was called human trafficking when we think of human
trafficking when we think of human
trafficking when we think of human trafficking we get an image in our mind
trafficking we get an image in our mind
trafficking we get an image in our mind we know that human trafficking is the
we know that human trafficking is the
we know that human trafficking is the Coco fields we know that it's indan I
Coco fields we know that it's indan I
Coco fields we know that it's indan I boys being sold by their parents for a
boys being sold by their parents for a
boys being sold by their parents for a debt they own to make bricks and carpets
debt they own to make bricks and carpets
debt they own to make bricks and carpets we know human trafficking involves
we know human trafficking involves
we know human trafficking involves plantations and field workers working
plantations and field workers working
plantations and field workers working for no pay we know that it's Cambodian
for no pay we know that it's Cambodian
for no pay we know that it's Cambodian girls and Thailand girls working as sex
girls and Thailand girls working as sex
girls and Thailand girls working as sex slaves um in Asian brothel first
slaves um in Asian brothel first
slaves um in Asian brothel first tourists to that come over we know this
tourists to that come over we know this
tourists to that come over we know this but we don't know that it's somebody
but we don't know that it's somebody
but we don't know that it's somebody like me we don't think that human
like me we don't think that human
like me we don't think that human trafficking can happen to a kid that
trafficking can happen to a kid that
trafficking can happen to a kid that grew up in a home and in a town just
grew up in a home and in a town just
grew up in a home and in a town just like New Albany or Dublin this is a
like New Albany or Dublin this is a
like New Albany or Dublin this is a picture of my first communion I'm sure
picture of my first communion I'm sure
picture of my first communion I'm sure many of you have a picture similar to
many of you have a picture similar to
many of you have a picture similar to this do you remember doing your hair and
this do you remember doing your hair and
this do you remember doing your hair and rollers and sleeping in them and if my
rollers and sleeping in them and if my
rollers and sleeping in them and if my brothers knew I had this picture they'd
brothers knew I had this picture they'd
brothers knew I had this picture they'd probably be pretty mad those outfits are
probably be pretty mad those outfits are
probably be pretty mad those outfits are God ugly so but it's just to show you
God ugly so but it's just to show you
God ugly so but it's just to show you that I came from a normal family I had a
that I came from a normal family I had a
that I came from a normal family I had a mom and a dad I wasn't beaten I didn't
mom and a dad I wasn't beaten I didn't
mom and a dad I wasn't beaten I didn't do drugs um I wasn't a Runa away I
do drugs um I wasn't a Runa away I
do drugs um I wasn't a Runa away I wasn't promiscuous I was a good good kid
wasn't promiscuous I was a good good kid
wasn't promiscuous I was a good good kid and I grew up in nice houses um my dad
and I grew up in nice houses um my dad
and I grew up in nice houses um my dad was a uh engineer for General Electric
was a uh engineer for General Electric
was a uh engineer for General Electric and he got promoted and we moved every
and he got promoted and we moved every
and he got promoted and we moved every two years like clockwork so I was always
two years like clockwork so I was always
two years like clockwork so I was always the new kid I didn't have aunts and
the new kid I didn't have aunts and
the new kid I didn't have aunts and uncles um and grandparents that were in
uncles um and grandparents that were in
uncles um and grandparents that were in town um that I could talk to I didn't
town um that I could talk to I didn't
town um that I could talk to I didn't have teachers and friends that would say
have teachers and friends that would say
have teachers and friends that would say oh you know Teresa's acting a little
oh you know Teresa's acting a little
oh you know Teresa's acting a little different so here I am 15 years old and
different so here I am 15 years old and
different so here I am 15 years old and we just moved to this little town called
we just moved to this little town called
we just moved to this little town called Birmingham Michigan and I thought it was
Birmingham Michigan and I thought it was
Birmingham Michigan and I thought it was an amazing town and I eventually got a
an amazing town and I eventually got a
an amazing town and I eventually got a crush on this boy and he was different
crush on this boy and he was different
crush on this boy and he was different he wasn't like the regular boys that I
he wasn't like the regular boys that I
he wasn't like the regular boys that I went to school with the normal boys I
went to school with the normal boys I
went to school with the normal boys I went to school with wor jeans and
went to school with wor jeans and
went to school with wor jeans and flannel shirts and they took a week off
flannel shirts and they took a week off
flannel shirts and they took a week off in the fall to go hunting with their
in the fall to go hunting with their
in the fall to go hunting with their Dads sound familiar he wasn't like that
Dads sound familiar he wasn't like that
Dads sound familiar he wasn't like that he wore slacks to school every day that
he wore slacks to school every day that
he wore slacks to school every day that were pressed with the line down the
were pressed with the line down the
were pressed with the line down the middle he woree r ra luren shirts he had
middle he woree r ra luren shirts he had
middle he woree r ra luren shirts he had gold chains and he smelled really good I
gold chains and he smelled really good I
gold chains and he smelled really good I wasn't used to this now my friends
wasn't used to this now my friends
wasn't used to this now my friends noticed him spending a lot of time
noticed him spending a lot of time
noticed him spending a lot of time talking to me always around when I
talking to me always around when I
talking to me always around when I turned and they said you know what if
turned and they said you know what if
turned and they said you know what if you want to be friends with us you won't
you want to be friends with us you won't
you want to be friends with us you won't talk to him and my parents were really
talk to him and my parents were really
talk to him and my parents were really strict and they didn't let me date until
strict and they didn't let me date until
strict and they didn't let me date until I was 16 and they said you're not going
I was 16 and they said you're not going
I was 16 and they said you're not going to go out with him so one day um I was
to go out with him so one day um I was
to go out with him so one day um I was going home after school stopped by my
going home after school stopped by my
going home after school stopped by my locker and he's standing there right by
locker and he's standing there right by
locker and he's standing there right by my locker and I thought and he said do
my locker and I thought and he said do
my locker and I thought and he said do you want to ride home from school now
you want to ride home from school now
you want to ride home from school now here I am 15 I have a crush on him and
here I am 15 I have a crush on him and
here I am 15 I have a crush on him and I'm not allowed to like him what do you
I'm not allowed to like him what do you
I'm not allowed to like him what do you think I
think I
think I said heck yeah I was like all right then
said heck yeah I was like all right then
said heck yeah I was like all right then now this is not a date right just so we
now this is not a date right just so we
now this is not a date right just so we clarify this is not a date he's just
clarify this is not a date he's just
clarify this is not a date he's just taking me home so we go out to his car
taking me home so we go out to his car
taking me home so we go out to his car and he has a brand new Black Transam
and he has a brand new Black Transam
and he has a brand new Black Transam does anybody remember those great so I'm
does anybody remember those great so I'm
does anybody remember those great so I'm all excited and we we get in this car
all excited and we we get in this car
all excited and we we get in this car and we pull out the wrong way out of the
and we pull out the wrong way out of the
and we pull out the wrong way out of the parking lot I live to the left and he
parking lot I live to the left and he
parking lot I live to the left and he pulled out to the right and I said wait
pulled out to the right and I said wait
pulled out to the right and I said wait wait wait wait I live this way and he
wait wait wait I live this way and he
wait wait wait I live this way and he said I know but I just need to go home
said I know but I just need to go home
said I know but I just need to go home and grab something now red flags went
and grab something now red flags went
and grab something now red flags went off on my head my parents had had lots
off on my head my parents had had lots
off on my head my parents had had lots of talks with me but then I thought
of talks with me but then I thought
of talks with me but then I thought Teresa you're being you're being silly
Teresa you're being you're being silly
Teresa you're being you're being silly you know him you go to church with him
you know him you go to church with him
you know him you go to church with him thought everything would be okay so we
thought everything would be okay so we
thought everything would be okay so we went to his house and if you think my
went to his house and if you think my
went to his house and if you think my house looked big it was a shack compared
house looked big it was a shack compared
house looked big it was a shack compared to his and I was curious and he said
to his and I was curious and he said
to his and I was curious and he said said do you want to come in I just need
said do you want to come in I just need
said do you want to come in I just need to grab something now more red flags
to grab something now more red flags
to grab something now more red flags went off and I said all the right things
went off and I said all the right things
went off and I said all the right things I said no no no my mom is waiting for me
I said no no no my mom is waiting for me
I said no no no my mom is waiting for me I need to get
I need to get
I need to get home but he turned to me and he said
home but he turned to me and he said
home but he turned to me and he said three
three
three words it only took three words he said I
words it only took three words he said I
words it only took three words he said I like you it's all it took I ignored all
like you it's all it took I ignored all
like you it's all it took I ignored all those red flags that day and I thought
those red flags that day and I thought
those red flags that day and I thought everything would be okay but it wasn't
everything would be okay but it wasn't
everything would be okay but it wasn't because all those red flags were right
because all those red flags were right
because all those red flags were right what what he did is very common even
what what he did is very common even
what what he did is very common even today he showed me around he offered me
today he showed me around he offered me
today he showed me around he offered me a pop and unfortunately that pop was
a pop and unfortunately that pop was
a pop and unfortunately that pop was laced with something and I did not know
laced with something and I did not know
laced with something and I did not know that I became very dizzy and he
that I became very dizzy and he
that I became very dizzy and he proceeded to rape me now when I went
proceeded to rape me now when I went
proceeded to rape me now when I went home that afternoon I didn't rush and
home that afternoon I didn't rush and
home that afternoon I didn't rush and tell my mom you see my family was
tell my mom you see my family was
tell my mom you see my family was Catholic and we really valued virginity
Catholic and we really valued virginity
Catholic and we really valued virginity until you got
until you got
until you got married as much as family I valued it
married as much as family I valued it
married as much as family I valued it and I didn't want them to know that that
and I didn't want them to know that that
and I didn't want them to know that that was no longer the case I didn't want
was no longer the case I didn't want
was no longer the case I didn't want them to see me different
them to see me different
them to see me different and you see like many parents we don't
and you see like many parents we don't
and you see like many parents we don't want our children to go through the same
want our children to go through the same
want our children to go through the same mistakes that we made my mom got
mistakes that we made my mom got
mistakes that we made my mom got pregnant out of wedlock and had to get
pregnant out of wedlock and had to get
pregnant out of wedlock and had to get married and she wasn't happy about it so
married and she wasn't happy about it so
married and she wasn't happy about it so she used this technique that some
she used this technique that some
she used this technique that some parents use that tough love and she said
parents use that tough love and she said
parents use that tough love and she said Tesa if you ever have sex you're going
Tesa if you ever have sex you're going
Tesa if you ever have sex you're going to get pregnant and then you're out to
to get pregnant and then you're out to
to get pregnant and then you're out to kind of scare me to be straight right I
kind of scare me to be straight right I
kind of scare me to be straight right I believed her so here I am coming home
believed her so here I am coming home
believed her so here I am coming home thinking wow I just had sex I'm going to
thinking wow I just had sex I'm going to
thinking wow I just had sex I'm going to be kicked out I just obeyed them I went
be kicked out I just obeyed them I went
be kicked out I just obeyed them I went with him and I don't want them to think
with him and I don't want them to think
with him and I don't want them to think of me different so I didn't say anything
of me different so I didn't say anything
of me different so I didn't say anything I thought I'll just handle this on my
I thought I'll just handle this on my
I thought I'll just handle this on my own but it got worse because a couple
own but it got worse because a couple
own but it got worse because a couple days later he came to me and he had an
days later he came to me and he had an
days later he came to me and he had an envelope in his
envelope in his
envelope in his hands and in that envelope were pictures
hands and in that envelope were pictures
hands and in that envelope were pictures and he said my cousins were there taking
and he said my cousins were there taking
and he said my cousins were there taking pictures and they have a plan and that
pictures and they have a plan and that
pictures and they have a plan and that plan is that you're going to earn these
plan is that you're going to earn these
plan is that you're going to earn these back or else he said we know where your
back or else he said we know where your
back or else he said we know where your dad works we know where he lives we're
dad works we know where he lives we're
dad works we know where he lives we're going to show him to your dad's boss
going to show him to your dad's boss
going to show him to your dad's boss take them to his house we're going to
take them to his house we're going to
take them to his house we're going to post them around
post them around
post them around school now I I was new there I was
school now I I was new there I was
school now I I was new there I was trying to make friends I figured my dad
trying to make friends I figured my dad
trying to make friends I figured my dad would get he would get fired and he said
would get he would get fired and he said
would get he would get fired and he said we're going to show them to the priest
we're going to show them to the priest
we're going to show them to the priest at church where I was really involved in
at church where I was really involved in
at church where I was really involved in so to me I thought I had no other
so to me I thought I had no other
so to me I thought I had no other options no other turnovers and I still
options no other turnovers and I still
options no other turnovers and I still had no idea what earn them back
had no idea what earn them back
had no idea what earn them back meant what it meant was they would kill
meant what it meant was they would kill
meant what it meant was they would kill my brothers if I didn't do what I said
my brothers if I didn't do what I said
my brothers if I didn't do what I said they would hurt my parents they would
they would hurt my parents they would
they would hurt my parents they would call my room in the middle of the night
call my room in the middle of the night
call my room in the middle of the night and demand that I appear immediately for
and demand that I appear immediately for
and demand that I appear immediately for service now I didn't put risque clothing
service now I didn't put risque clothing
service now I didn't put risque clothing on or do my hair or my makeup I usually
on or do my hair or my makeup I usually
on or do my hair or my makeup I usually went in my pajamas and I usually went
went in my pajamas and I usually went
went in my pajamas and I usually went Barefoot so I could sneak out quietly I
Barefoot so I could sneak out quietly I
Barefoot so I could sneak out quietly I would sneak out to another Street in our
would sneak out to another Street in our
would sneak out to another Street in our subdivision where that Trans Am was
subdivision where that Trans Am was
subdivision where that Trans Am was waiting for me and I didn't walk the
waiting for me and I didn't walk the
waiting for me and I didn't walk the streets and knock on car doors I was
streets and knock on car doors I was
streets and knock on car doors I was taken to very Beau beautiful upscale
taken to very Beau beautiful upscale
taken to very Beau beautiful upscale homes where they would Usher me in these
homes where they would Usher me in these
homes where they would Usher me in these side doors down the stairs to these
side doors down the stairs to these
side doors down the stairs to these opulent areas where only men were
opulent areas where only men were
opulent areas where only men were allowed there was always a bedroom and I
allowed there was always a bedroom and I
allowed there was always a bedroom and I would be taken and locked
would be taken and locked
would be taken and locked away sometimes tied up sometimes
away sometimes tied up sometimes
away sometimes tied up sometimes tortured and I was thinking the other
tortured and I was thinking the other
tortured and I was thinking the other day wow there was families upstairs
day wow there was families upstairs
day wow there was families upstairs women and children they must have heard
women and children they must have heard
women and children they must have heard my
my
my screams this went on for two long
screams this went on for two long
screams this went on for two long years I remember one night laying there
years I remember one night laying there
years I remember one night laying there totally exhausted just wanting to go
totally exhausted just wanting to go
totally exhausted just wanting to go home so I could get a few hours of sleep
home so I could get a few hours of sleep
home so I could get a few hours of sleep before I went to school the next
before I went to school the next
before I went to school the next day and I remember laying there and the
day and I remember laying there and the
day and I remember laying there and the door opened
door opened
door opened again and I looked up and it was my
again and I looked up and it was my
again and I looked up and it was my trafficker with an older
trafficker with an older
trafficker with an older gentleman and he said something to me
gentleman and he said something to me
gentleman and he said something to me that nobody had ever said he said what's
that nobody had ever said he said what's
that nobody had ever said he said what's your name
your name
your name nobody ever asked me that and I knew
nobody ever asked me that and I knew
nobody ever asked me that and I knew from experience I wasn't allowed to
from experience I wasn't allowed to
from experience I wasn't allowed to speak I had done that one time so I kept
speak I had done that one time so I kept
speak I had done that one time so I kept my eyes down and I didn't look
my eyes down and I didn't look
my eyes down and I didn't look up and he looked at the trafficker and
up and he looked at the trafficker and
up and he looked at the trafficker and said what's her name and the trafficker
said what's her name and the trafficker
said what's her name and the trafficker looked at him with disgust and said what
looked at him with disgust and said what
looked at him with disgust and said what does it matter she has no name now to
does it matter she has no name now to
does it matter she has no name now to hear that as a kid as an adult it breaks
hear that as a kid as an adult it breaks
hear that as a kid as an adult it breaks your
your
your soul these guys were ruthless
soul these guys were ruthless
soul these guys were ruthless but this man didn't know he didn't know
but this man didn't know he didn't know
but this man didn't know he didn't know that I wasn't there by choice he didn't
that I wasn't there by choice he didn't
that I wasn't there by choice he didn't know that I was only 16 years
know that I was only 16 years
know that I was only 16 years old he had no
old he had no
old he had no idea so how big of a problem is this
idea so how big of a problem is this
idea so how big of a problem is this well we know that 80% of victims are
well we know that 80% of victims are
well we know that 80% of victims are women and 50% are
women and 50% are
women and 50% are children the uh University of
children the uh University of
children the uh University of Pennsylvania has found that
Pennsylvania has found that
Pennsylvania has found that 350,000 American youth are at risk of
350,000 American youth are at risk of
350,000 American youth are at risk of being sexually exploited that's a lot of
being sexually exploited that's a lot of
being sexually exploited that's a lot of kids the FBI and National missing
kids the FBI and National missing
kids the FBI and National missing children's um Clearing House have said
children's um Clearing House have said
children's um Clearing House have said that a
that a
that a 100,000 American kids are being sexually
100,000 American kids are being sexually
100,000 American kids are being sexually trafficked right this very minute can
trafficked right this very minute can
trafficked right this very minute can you believe
you believe
you believe that and I sit up on the Attorney
that and I sit up on the Attorney
that and I sit up on the Attorney General's commission here in Ohio to
General's commission here in Ohio to
General's commission here in Ohio to study human trafficking and before we
study human trafficking and before we
study human trafficking and before we were able to pass the bill into law they
were able to pass the bill into law they
were able to pass the bill into law they wanted to know how big of a problem was
wanted to know how big of a problem was
wanted to know how big of a problem was this in Ohio in our communities right
this in Ohio in our communities right
this in Ohio in our communities right here and the University of Toledo found
here and the University of Toledo found
here and the University of Toledo found that over
that over
that over 1,79 kids are being trafficked in Ohio
1,79 kids are being trafficked in Ohio
1,79 kids are being trafficked in Ohio your kids right this very
your kids right this very
your kids right this very minute but how many is too many how many
minute but how many is too many how many
minute but how many is too many how many teses are too many is
teses are too many is
teses are too many is one I love this quote it says I never
one I love this quote it says I never
one I love this quote it says I never met a juvenile and Prost and
met a juvenile and Prost and
met a juvenile and Prost and prostitution who didn't have a pimp you
prostitution who didn't have a pimp you
prostitution who didn't have a pimp you see in our country human trafficking is
see in our country human trafficking is
see in our country human trafficking is different it's not the plantations and
different it's not the plantations and
different it's not the plantations and the brick workers and the brothel it's
the brick workers and the brothel it's
the brick workers and the brothel it's called teen prostitution here it comes
called teen prostitution here it comes
called teen prostitution here it comes in a different form and we don't know it
in a different form and we don't know it
in a different form and we don't know it because in our country we think of
because in our country we think of
because in our country we think of prostitution as an option something
prostitution as an option something
prostitution as an option something people choose to
people choose to
people choose to do we don't know that the average woman
do we don't know that the average woman
do we don't know that the average woman has to have sex with 10 to 15 men a
has to have sex with 10 to 15 men a
has to have sex with 10 to 15 men a night every night of the
night every night of the
night every night of the year we don't
year we don't
year we don't know that she has a 40% higher chance of
know that she has a 40% higher chance of
know that she has a 40% higher chance of dying than any of you most likely she
dying than any of you most likely she
dying than any of you most likely she will die of murder drug overdose or
will die of murder drug overdose or
will die of murder drug overdose or suicide because it's so hard to take she
suicide because it's so hard to take she
suicide because it's so hard to take she will become involved in the legal system
will become involved in the legal system
will become involved in the legal system the medical system the social service
the medical system the social service
the medical system the social service system and without a doubt she will lose
system and without a doubt she will lose
system and without a doubt she will lose her
her
her voice I get the opportunity to work for
voice I get the opportunity to work for
voice I get the opportunity to work for an amazing organization called Grace
an amazing organization called Grace
an amazing organization called Grace Haven this is a home that we are
Haven this is a home that we are
Haven this is a home that we are building outside of Columbus that will
building outside of Columbus that will
building outside of Columbus that will house 10 kids under the age of 18 who've
house 10 kids under the age of 18 who've
house 10 kids under the age of 18 who've been victimized by human trafficking
been victimized by human trafficking
been victimized by human trafficking most of them can't go back home they
most of them can't go back home they
most of them can't go back home they don't have good families they've been
don't have good families they've been
don't have good families they've been runaways and they have no other option
runaways and they have no other option
runaways and they have no other option our home will allow them to get their
our home will allow them to get their
our home will allow them to get their GED it'll allow them to heal to get
GED it'll allow them to heal to get
GED it'll allow them to heal to get therapy to play to be a kid again
therapy to play to be a kid again
therapy to play to be a kid again because most of these kids kids have had
because most of these kids kids have had
because most of these kids kids have had to do very adult things that most of you
to do very adult things that most of you
to do very adult things that most of you have never had to do they um have
have never had to do they um have
have never had to do they um have post-traumatic stress and Stockholm
post-traumatic stress and Stockholm
post-traumatic stress and Stockholm syndrome it's like being in a cult so it
syndrome it's like being in a cult so it
syndrome it's like being in a cult so it takes years and years to heal from
takes years and years to heal from
takes years and years to heal from something like this and Grace Haven is
something like this and Grace Haven is
something like this and Grace Haven is going to do that the other thing that I
going to do that the other thing that I
going to do that the other thing that I get to do with Grace Haven is I get to
get to do with Grace Haven is I get to
get to do with Grace Haven is I get to work with survivors and I get to tell my
work with survivors and I get to tell my
work with survivors and I get to tell my story all over the
story all over the
story all over the place so one night I was uh speaking to
place so one night I was uh speaking to
place so one night I was uh speaking to a young young lady who is 20 years old
a young young lady who is 20 years old
a young young lady who is 20 years old she's from Ohio and she was sold by her
she's from Ohio and she was sold by her
she's from Ohio and she was sold by her mom when she was 4 years old she was
mom when she was 4 years old she was
mom when she was 4 years old she was having a very difficult time not getting
having a very difficult time not getting
having a very difficult time not getting counseling and I was taking bets that
counseling and I was taking bets that
counseling and I was taking bets that she wasn't going to make it through the
she wasn't going to make it through the
she wasn't going to make it through the weekend I went to Detroit that day to do
weekend I went to Detroit that day to do
weekend I went to Detroit that day to do a talk and it was the first time I had
a talk and it was the first time I had
a talk and it was the first time I had gone back to Detroit I wasn't happy
gone back to Detroit I wasn't happy
gone back to Detroit I wasn't happy about it and I was driving home
about it and I was driving home
about it and I was driving home afterwards and something happened I got
afterwards and something happened I got
afterwards and something happened I got lost I started seeing signs for the
lost I started seeing signs for the
lost I started seeing signs for the names of the city I had been taken to
names of the city I had been taken to
names of the city I had been taken to before and I started to freak out I
before and I started to freak out I
before and I started to freak out I remembered my worst night ever I
remembered my worst night ever I
remembered my worst night ever I remember the night when I went out to
remember the night when I went out to
remember the night when I went out to meet that Trans Am and it was a
meet that Trans Am and it was a
meet that Trans Am and it was a different driver they kidnapped me and
different driver they kidnapped me and
different driver they kidnapped me and they drove me very far away from home
they drove me very far away from home
they drove me very far away from home they drugged me and beat me when we
they drugged me and beat me when we
they drugged me and beat me when we stopped we arrived at a little dingy
stopped we arrived at a little dingy
stopped we arrived at a little dingy Diner motel in the inner city Detroit
Diner motel in the inner city Detroit
Diner motel in the inner city Detroit the kind that's the L-shaped kind with
the kind that's the L-shaped kind with
the kind that's the L-shaped kind with the doors on the outside and the broken
the doors on the outside and the broken
the doors on the outside and the broken down cars and there's always like a
down cars and there's always like a
down cars and there's always like a 24-hour diner on the end I had never
24-hour diner on the end I had never
24-hour diner on the end I had never been to a place like that they pulled me
been to a place like that they pulled me
been to a place like that they pulled me by my hair from the car to a little open
by my hair from the car to a little open
by my hair from the car to a little open motel room that was
motel room that was
motel room that was open and 20 men waited for me here I was
open and 20 men waited for me here I was
open and 20 men waited for me here I was the only girl 16 in a sea of
the only girl 16 in a sea of
the only girl 16 in a sea of men and that night I was auctioned off
men and that night I was auctioned off
men and that night I was auctioned off to the highest bidder
to the highest bidder
to the highest bidder over and over again until I passed out
over and over again until I passed out
over and over again until I passed out when I woke up I was naked and bleeding
when I woke up I was naked and bleeding
when I woke up I was naked and bleeding I couldn't find my clothes I didn't have
I couldn't find my clothes I didn't have
I couldn't find my clothes I didn't have any shoes I didn't have any money I
any shoes I didn't have any money I
any shoes I didn't have any money I didn't have any ID and I had no idea
didn't have any ID and I had no idea
didn't have any ID and I had no idea where I was talk about total
where I was talk about total
where I was talk about total despair so when I'm remembering this
despair so when I'm remembering this
despair so when I'm remembering this night I'm remembering I really could
night I'm remembering I really could
night I'm remembering I really could have used somebody to talk to I needed
have used somebody to talk to I needed
have used somebody to talk to I needed somebody but I didn't have anybody CU
somebody but I didn't have anybody CU
somebody but I didn't have anybody CU nobody knew this was going on to a kid
nobody knew this was going on to a kid
nobody knew this was going on to a kid like me and I was remembering
like me and I was remembering
like me and I was remembering Sophie and I thought what can I do to
Sophie and I thought what can I do to
Sophie and I thought what can I do to reach out to these kids I can share my
reach out to these kids I can share my
reach out to these kids I can share my story all the time but what can I do to
story all the time but what can I do to
story all the time but what can I do to reach them and I decided we have this
reach them and I decided we have this
reach them and I decided we have this wonderful 1-800 number now it's a
wonderful 1-800 number now it's a
wonderful 1-800 number now it's a toll-free hotline a human trafficking
toll-free hotline a human trafficking
toll-free hotline a human trafficking hotline I'm going to get that to them in
hotline I'm going to get that to them in
hotline I'm going to get that to them in their darkest moment and that darkest
their darkest moment and that darkest
their darkest moment and that darkest moment is in those motels but they all
moment is in those motels but they all
moment is in those motels but they all go to the bathroom to clean up afterward
go to the bathroom to clean up afterward
go to the bathroom to clean up afterward and I thought I'm going to put that 1
and I thought I'm going to put that 1
and I thought I'm going to put that 1 1800 number on a tiny bar of soap for
1800 number on a tiny bar of soap for
1800 number on a tiny bar of soap for them to find because they need someone
them to find because they need someone
them to find because they need someone to
to
to call so at that moment soap was created
call so at that moment soap was created
call so at that moment soap was created um and I thought you know God I really
um and I thought you know God I really
um and I thought you know God I really don't need another thing to to do I'm
don't need another thing to to do I'm
don't need another thing to to do I'm really busy you know what what should I
really busy you know what what should I
really busy you know what what should I call this if I'm going to do this what
call this if I'm going to do this what
call this if I'm going to do this what should I call it and all the time I'm
should I call it and all the time I'm
should I call it and all the time I'm trying to drive out of Detroit and I
trying to drive out of Detroit and I
trying to drive out of Detroit and I hear in my head soap like that's cute
hear in my head soap like that's cute
hear in my head soap like that's cute God that's cute well does what does soap
God that's cute well does what does soap
God that's cute well does what does soap stand for and like this pops into my
stand for and like this pops into my
stand for and like this pops into my head save our adolescence from
head save our adolescence from
head save our adolescence from prostitution I thought okay this is it
prostitution I thought okay this is it
prostitution I thought okay this is it I'm going to create this soap and then I
I'm going to create this soap and then I
I'm going to create this soap and then I thought well what am I going to do with
thought well what am I going to do with
thought well what am I going to do with it I'm going to where am I going to take
it I'm going to where am I going to take
it I'm going to where am I going to take it and I decided to take it to cities
it and I decided to take it to cities
it and I decided to take it to cities where the huge demand where people were
where the huge demand where people were
where the huge demand where people were coming into a city and the demand for
coming into a city and the demand for
coming into a city and the demand for sex for sale was high so we took it to
sex for sale was high so we took it to
sex for sale was high so we took it to the Super Bowl we started there and I
the Super Bowl we started there and I
the Super Bowl we started there and I got volunteers from all over the country
got volunteers from all over the country
got volunteers from all over the country to to come and label 10,000 bars of soap
to to come and label 10,000 bars of soap
to to come and label 10,000 bars of soap and we gave it to the motels for
and we gave it to the motels for
and we gave it to the motels for free and they took it they took it
free and they took it they took it
free and they took it they took it because and they said we didn't know
because and they said we didn't know
because and they said we didn't know what to do we see this all the time and
what to do we see this all the time and
what to do we see this all the time and we didn't know what to
we didn't know what to
we didn't know what to do um at that time I also met two young
do um at that time I also met two young
do um at that time I also met two young college students and those guys said
college students and those guys said
college students and those guys said Teresa we really want to do this at one
Teresa we really want to do this at one
Teresa we really want to do this at one Motel the policeman tell us this is
Motel the policeman tell us this is
Motel the policeman tell us this is where the pimps are taking the
where the pimps are taking the
where the pimps are taking the girls and I said I don't know and he
girls and I said I don't know and he
girls and I said I don't know and he said please
said please
said please we we'll give it to them the whole for
we we'll give it to them the whole for
we we'll give it to them the whole for the whole month I'm like okay and so I
the whole month I'm like okay and so I
the whole month I'm like okay and so I gave them soap for two months I tapped
gave them soap for two months I tapped
gave them soap for two months I tapped into my life savings supplied them with
into my life savings supplied them with
into my life savings supplied them with all the soap they needed for this one
all the soap they needed for this one
all the soap they needed for this one Motel it was a Suburban Extended SE
Motel it was a Suburban Extended SE
Motel it was a Suburban Extended SE Motel outside of
Motel outside of
Motel outside of Dallas and that was in April in May a
Dallas and that was in April in May a
Dallas and that was in April in May a phone call
phone call
phone call came a uh young lady 21 years old had
came a uh young lady 21 years old had
came a uh young lady 21 years old had been kidnapped from Milwaukee by a
been kidnapped from Milwaukee by a
been kidnapped from Milwaukee by a couple she had been driven to New
couple she had been driven to New
couple she had been driven to New Orleans and she had been forced to work
Orleans and she had been forced to work
Orleans and she had been forced to work as a stripper and a prostitute their
as a stripper and a prostitute their
as a stripper and a prostitute their next stop was
next stop was
next stop was Dallas they took her to this extended
Dallas they took her to this extended
Dallas they took her to this extended Suburban stay and locked her in the
Suburban stay and locked her in the
Suburban stay and locked her in the bathroom and made her take a bath of
bathroom and made her take a bath of
bathroom and made her take a bath of cold water she pounded on the door and
cold water she pounded on the door and
cold water she pounded on the door and begged to get out and go for a walk for
begged to get out and go for a walk for
begged to get out and go for a walk for a few minutes they let her and with her
a few minutes they let her and with her
a few minutes they let her and with her she took a bar of soap and she made a
she took a bar of soap and she made a
she took a bar of soap and she made a phone
phone
phone call a tiny little bar of soap helped
call a tiny little bar of soap helped
call a tiny little bar of soap helped her find her voice and find
her find her voice and find
her find her voice and find Freedom this young lady is not so lucky
Freedom this young lady is not so lucky
Freedom this young lady is not so lucky we decided that we are going to take the
we decided that we are going to take the
we decided that we are going to take the soap to every event that we can imagine
soap to every event that we can imagine
soap to every event that we can imagine we're taking it this year to the Detroit
we're taking it this year to the Detroit
we're taking it this year to the Detroit Auto Show to the um Super Bowl to the
Auto Show to the um Super Bowl to the
Auto Show to the um Super Bowl to the datona bike week to the National
datona bike week to the National
datona bike week to the National Democrat and Republican
Democrat and Republican
Democrat and Republican conventions we're taking it everywhere
conventions we're taking it everywhere
conventions we're taking it everywhere the demand for sex is higher and guess
the demand for sex is higher and guess
the demand for sex is higher and guess what
what
what that includes Columbus Ohio this young
that includes Columbus Ohio this young
that includes Columbus Ohio this young lady is for sale in Columbus Ohio right
lady is for sale in Columbus Ohio right
lady is for sale in Columbus Ohio right this very minute I found her ad when I
this very minute I found her ad when I
this very minute I found her ad when I was looking up the Columbus
was looking up the Columbus
was looking up the Columbus marathon says on here she's 22 does
marathon says on here she's 22 does
marathon says on here she's 22 does anybody in this room think she's
anybody in this room think she's
anybody in this room think she's 22 no she looks like 12 to me she's from
22 no she looks like 12 to me she's from
22 no she looks like 12 to me she's from Columbus and she's for sale right
Columbus and she's for sale right
Columbus and she's for sale right now I do this for her because I don't
now I do this for her because I don't
now I do this for her because I don't want her to have to go through what I
want her to have to go through what I
want her to have to go through what I endured all those years
endured all those years
endured all those years years I'm
years I'm
years I'm sorry so this story is a story of Hope
sorry so this story is a story of Hope
sorry so this story is a story of Hope of how a hope how a house a just a
of how a hope how a house a just a
of how a hope how a house a just a simple house can
simple house can
simple house can heal it's a
heal it's a
heal it's a story of how a bar soap can
story of how a bar soap can
story of how a bar soap can rescue and it's a story of how I found
rescue and it's a story of how I found
rescue and it's a story of how I found my
my
my voice and now you know thank
voice and now you know thank
voice and now you know thank you
you
Phonetic Breakdown of "bidder"
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Definition of "bidder"
Noun
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Someone who bids, e.g. at an auctionExample: "The highest bidder shall get the house."