How to pronounce "自作多情"

[English subtitles are available.]

Yu Chi-zi, just go back to class.

Come back to me later.

Okay.

That's my stepmother.

I'm sorry.

Why are you sorry?

I shouldn't have hit her.

Don't do anything stupid out of impulse in the future.

You see how anxious Yu Chi-zi is?

We're not the relationship you think we are.

Is your father going to be okay?

It's okay. He's just on a business trip.

Then why didn't you tell her?

Don't you think it's boring when adults fight?

My dad is bored and so is Dong Jialei.

So please,

just leave the boredom alone.

You...

You like this song too.

Forget it.

Yu Chi-zi,

let's go to a bar on your birthday. How about that?

Definitely no.

My mother would break my leg if she knew.

We'll go to the Suan Le Bar next to the school.

It's not far.

Just listen to the songs and have a Coke.

We're not doing anything else.

How about that?

You can even get a discount with my VIP card.

We don't go to places like that.

Isn't that right, Miss Genki?

You guys are so boring.

Youth is all about getting excited.

Are you guys getting old before you've had a chance to experience youth?

Vote for Han Kaka, please. Thank you.

Please vote for Han Kaka.

Han Kaka needs your support. Thank you.

Please vote for Han Kaka.

Han Kaka needs your support. Thank you.

We hand out flyers.

They give out flyers, too.

We're doing publicity in the Post Bar.

They're doing it, too.

They do whatever we do.

It's too much, isn't it?

By the way, I heard.

A few days ago, someone claimed to be the school belle at Sky High.

Kaka, you heard wrong.

Is that the school joke at Sky High?

You!

It's a joke. It's funny.

Shut up.

I'll get the arms. Get out of the way.

Get out of my way, all of you!

Are you crazy? What are you doing?

Get out of the way.

If you want to give out flyers, do it in front of your class, not ours.

Is this your hallway?

I do it wherever I like.

What are you doing?

The "Joke" didn't even say anything.

What are you so mad about?

Pah.

Who's the joke?

Whoever votes for you is blind.

You... you say that again.

Whoever votes for you is blind.

Are you guys done?

Why are you pulling me?

Why are you acting like a nosy old lady?

Just mind your own business, okay?

What do you mean by that?

What happened to Princess Sisi is my business.

You better keep an eye on yourself.

You don't know how much tougher she is than you.

She's not going to get screwed.

Genki.

Sisi.

Are you okay? I was so scared.

Don't be so impulsive again.

I'm fine.

You're just way too gentle.

That's why Han Kaka and the others are bullying you.

I have you, don't I?

Where's the Han Kaka?

Duan Bowen.

Why don't you come live with us for a few days?

Until your father returns.

Look at that.

What's all the fuss about?

Are you stupid?

You're forgetting the rumors about

what Ms. Little Ear's boyfriend drives.

Her boyfriend must be rich and have good taste.

They're perfect for each other.

Well,

do you want to know

what her boyfriend looks like?

Don't be ridiculous. I'm not.

Look at you.

You're obviously jealous of her boyfriend.

But in another 20 years,

you might be able to drive this car too.

But, by then,

this car might not be so special.

I don't care.

Wait!

Nine yuan.

Duan Bowen, wait for me.

Hurry up.

Chi-zi, you're here.

Hi, Sanshui.

Is the new issue here?

I've got it covered for you.

Good.

Here you go.

Thank you.

Duan Bowen,

aren't you going to buy the new issue?

It's boring.

I already knew the ending,

so I stopped watching.

If you don't want to buy it, don't look it up.

No,

I don't bother with him.

Are you sure you don't want to stay at my place for a few days?

Let's wait for Uncle Duan's return.

No need.

Then call me if you need anything.

Do you girls like boys who drive Land Rovers?

Not really.

Everyone's preferences are different.

If it's someone I like.

Even if he drove a tractor,

I'd still think he was particularly handsome.

See you tomorrow.

Duan Bowen,

Do you like tractors?

Sanshui said you know me.

Do you study in the Sky High too?

Yes.

Who are you?

The person you see every day.

Every day?

Duan Bowen, aren't you going to buy the new issue?

It's boring. I already knew the ending.

Guess what happened after Hu Yidao fell off the cliff.

Saved by the heroine.

How do you know?

Oh, no.

Wait a second.

Hello, your delivery has arrived.

Okay, thanks. Bye.

Wash your hands and eat.

I'm not hungry.

It's late. What are you doing?

Are you going to mess with Yu again?

Mess?

They're no match for you in that respect.

I gotta wonder if your father was hidden

by the mother and daughter of Yu.

I suggest you better go to the hospital.

You know I'm sick.

I'm sick because of you and your father.

Then you can divorce my father.

It's a good way to go.

Get out of the way. Thank you.

Are you okay, buddy?

Do you want me to take you to the hospital?

Suan Le Bar

Get in and have another drink.

Okay, I'm gonna get you drunk today.

You're the one who's drunk.

What are you doing?

Come on, come on.

What are you doing? I'm going home.

I'll keep you company.

Help! Help!

Let me keep you company.

Help! Help! Help!

Let her go.

Who are you?

I'm her brother.

Are you sure you're not?

What?

You're Hengdao, aren't you?

I see you every day.

And you said you wrote this book for...

Chi-zi. Good morning.

Good morning.

What are you two talking about?

Nothing.

What the hell are you talking about?

You said you wrote this book for me.

Are you nuts?

Are you messing with someone?

I think he's fooling you.

Are you really not Hengdao?

Am I that boring?

Then who is Hengdao?

How do I know?

Oh, my God, Princess Sisi.

Why do you have such heavy dark circles under your eyes?

It's okay.

I practiced the piano too late last night.

The test is coming up.

Just ignore him.

He's acting up again.

Scarlett, I'm really curious about him.

Then you should ask him to meet you.

Is that okay?

What's wrong with that?

Maybe it's a handsome guy.

I'm going to ask him to meet me at the beach tonight.

Will you come with me?

But, darling, I have to practice today.

The piano test is coming up.

All right.

Yu Chi-zi

Did you give me the class fee?

I did.

Your name is not here.

What are you listening to?

Wild World.

Such retro music.

Give it back to me.

By the way, why did you go to the Suan Le Bar last night?

You can go to the bar and practice piano.

Can't I just go to dance there?

I know you're curious about me now.

Will you stop being so mean?

It's a disease. You have to treat it.

What are you two talking about?

We were just talking about whether your Hengdao is a handsome guy.

It doesn't matter if he's handsome or not.

What I value is personality.

Duan Jianguo, open the door!

Open up!

Open the door!

The owner is back.

How can I open it if you're in the way?

Don't think I don't know what you guys are up to.

Isn't your major in theater?

Since when did you become a spy?

What's wrong with my major?

Jianguo likes to hear me sing.

You're not happy about that?

Not at all.

Then you'd better take him home

and sing to him every day.

What are you looking at?

Get out of the way.

Get out of the way.

Let's go.

I asked for Stewed Pear Rock Candy. What are you giving me here?

My grandmother didn't hear it correctly.

Why are you still in business when you're old and unable to hear?

I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

If you do this again,

I will never come back.

Then don't come.

We're a small business, can't serve you lady.

How did you say that?

You took the wrong food and ate it,

then pick a fight after ate up.

You did it on purpose, didn't you?

How do I know I'm taking the wrong thing

if I don't eat it?

Auntie,

you don't have to eat it all, do you?

You can't afford it, I can pay it for you.

I don't need that.

I can afford to pay it.

Chi-zi. Here, for you.

Okay, thank you.

You know,

you can't be weak anymore.

Some people tend to bully the powerless ones.

You have to learn from me.

Look, Grandma's got my back.

Yes, yes.

Thank you.

Have you ever met Hengdao?

No, no.

Yeah, he's so mysterious.

How could he show up so easily?

But how do you know him?

I always go to the magazine,

so I asked the people there.

If you know who he is,

would you like him?

It depends.

Depends on what?

Take a guess.

I'm leaving.

Grandma, I'm going. The sugar water is good.

Bye. Grandma, bye.

Hi there.

Hello.

How do you know?

Did we meet today?

Do you know who I am?

I know, Yu Chi-zi. Do you want to see me?

Miss Li.

Why are you here?

I...

Yu's house is next door. I was just passing by.

You should go home early.

If you're a man, don't follow me.

Miss Li.

I'm just going home.

I'm sorry.

I thought it was a friend of mine.

Who won, Scarlett or Han Kaka?

Excuse me, please. Thank you.

The First Stage of the Student Union President Election Han Kaka, Scarlett, Zhang Yajun, Deng Xiyun, Zhang Kai, Ding Lu, Zhang Peng

Sisi.

Sisi, are you okay?

I'm fine.

It's okay. It's just the preliminary round.

We don't know who will win in the end.

The votes were not far apart.

Let's do some more publicity.

We'll definitely overtake that Han Kaka.

Too many secrets, not enough memory, stop updating here before deleting you completely.

You're not leaving?

I've got something to do. You can go first.

What are you doing? I'll go with you.

I'm going to a cyber cafe to play Warcraft.

Then I won't go, or I'll be bored to death.

What?

Gift.

You didn't forget, did you?

I'm mad at you for doing this.

Every year on your birthday,

I prepare a gift for you a month in advance.

Well, that's very kind of you.

Happy birthday to me.

Happy birthday, Duan Bowen.

Thank you.

This is the first tooth you lost.

Isn't it monumental?

Happy birthday to me.

Happy birthday, Duan Bowen.

Thank you.

This is what you wore when you first fought for me.

I've always treasured it.

What is this?

Birthday gift?

I don't know.

It's the first pair of open pants in your life.

I'm there for you in every moment of growth.

Happy birthday.

Look! Look!

Duan Bowen's open pants.

Open pants.

I am impressed as hell with you.

Well, I didn't forget your birthday gift.

I knew you wouldn't forget.

Let's have dinner at my home tonight.

Genki.

Come to my house today and do homework.

My mother's not home. She's gone to America.

I was scared to be home alone.

But...

Still need Duan's approval?

I didn't know you two were a couple.

Go home early after your homework. I want to copy your physics homework.

I'm done with math.

Do you want to take a look at it?

Thank you, Miss Genki.

Miss Genki.

Are we good friends?

Of course.

Then let me ask you a question.

You have to be honest with me.

Sure.

Do you like Duan Bowen?

Why are you asking me that?

Nothing.

There's a girl who wants to be his girlfriend,

and asked me about him.

You tell her to stay away from him.

You're talking as if Duan is your boyfriend.

Duan Bowen is not ugly,

and he plays basketball well.

It's normal for girls to like him.

But he seems to be very picky.

He's my boyfriend.

So, did he kiss you?

You have to kiss

on the lips to count.

You can guess for yourself.

I'm going home.

Sometimes

the best friends between girls

are the ones who lend their ears to you

and hear you tell all your secrets

then go public with it.

To put it bluntly, it's a scam.

So, I had to learn to keep my secret.

And the surface of the secret is a lie.

And the surface of the lie

is to retain what little dignity remains.

Shame in the Sky High- Han Kaka. Big Scandal

"Secret Fruit",

may feel

sweet and sour.

"Secret Fruit" secret.

I think it's, supposedly literally,

the fruit of the secret.

If there is a secret in your heart,

it will always be particularly depressing,

because this tangled process is the one that will make you grow.

When I'm facing someone I like,

I don't take the initiative to chase her,

I just look at her secretly,

and then find the opportunity to talk to her

It was a long time ago,

when we were still in school,

and I thought he was a tall, handsome boy.

I keep everything in my mind,

I don't dare say it to her,

I think if I express it intuitively to her,

it's embarrassing

if she turn me down.

If the relationship between two people is over,

just start over.

If we can be friends, let's be friends.

If we can't be friends, let's be ordinary classmates.

It was late every time we finished rollerblading,

and the road home was long,

that time was supposed to be my most wonderful time.

The city wasn't very well built back then,

and there weren't many street lights.

Every time I say: it's too dark, I can't see.

The slower the footsteps, the happier I got,

so every time we go home,

time is infinitely stretched.

Sometimes at the rink,

it ends at 7:00, and it takes about 2 hours for us to get home,

but it still feels like time goes by so fast.

No matter what excuses are made,

time still goes by so fast.

This secret has been kept for a long time,

for me he is a knot in my heart,

I had a crush on a boy

in my freshman year of college.

It started

as a crush,

but it turned into a clear one.

I went to see him every day,

and gradually,

after getting used to it, he liked me.

That's it,

seeing someone every day,

and then one day

I didn't go, and he must have thought: hey, why didn't she come.

And then it became that he would actively

try to get to me.

This kind of friend who was close

and ended up splitting up over a fight may not have been a real friend in the first place.

[English subtitles are available.]

Yu Chi-zi, just go back to class.

Come back to me later.

Okay.

That's my stepmother.

I'm sorry.

Why are you sorry?

I shouldn't have hit her.

Don't do anything stupid out of impulse in the future.

You see how anxious Yu Chi-zi is?

We're not the relationship you think we are.

Is your father going to be okay?

It's okay. He's just on a business trip.

Then why didn't you tell her?

Don't you think it's boring when adults fight?

My dad is bored and so is Dong Jialei.

So please,

just leave the boredom alone.

You...

You like this song too.

Forget it.

Yu Chi-zi,

let's go to a bar on your birthday. How about that?

Definitely no.

My mother would break my leg if she knew.

We'll go to the Suan Le Bar next to the school.

It's not far.

Just listen to the songs and have a Coke.

We're not doing anything else.

How about that?

You can even get a discount with my VIP card.

We don't go to places like that.

Isn't that right, Miss Genki?

You guys are so boring.

Youth is all about getting excited.

Are you guys getting old before you've had a chance to experience youth?

Vote for Han Kaka, please. Thank you.

Please vote for Han Kaka.

Han Kaka needs your support. Thank you.

Please vote for Han Kaka.

Han Kaka needs your support. Thank you.

We hand out flyers.

They give out flyers, too.

We're doing publicity in the Post Bar.

They're doing it, too.

They do whatever we do.

It's too much, isn't it?

By the way, I heard.

A few days ago, someone claimed to be the school belle at Sky High.

Kaka, you heard wrong.

Is that the school joke at Sky High?

You!

It's a joke. It's funny.

Shut up.

I'll get the arms. Get out of the way.

Get out of my way, all of you!

Are you crazy? What are you doing?

Get out of the way.

If you want to give out flyers, do it in front of your class, not ours.

Is this your hallway?

I do it wherever I like.

What are you doing?

The "Joke" didn't even say anything.

What are you so mad about?

Pah.

Who's the joke?

Whoever votes for you is blind.

You... you say that again.

Whoever votes for you is blind.

Are you guys done?

Why are you pulling me?

Why are you acting like a nosy old lady?

Just mind your own business, okay?

What do you mean by that?

What happened to Princess Sisi is my business.

You better keep an eye on yourself.

You don't know how much tougher she is than you.

She's not going to get screwed.

Genki.

Sisi.

Are you okay? I was so scared.

Don't be so impulsive again.

I'm fine.

You're just way too gentle.

That's why Han Kaka and the others are bullying you.

I have you, don't I?

Where's the Han Kaka?

Duan Bowen.

Why don't you come live with us for a few days?

Until your father returns.

Look at that.

What's all the fuss about?

Are you stupid?

You're forgetting the rumors about

what Ms. Little Ear's boyfriend drives.

Her boyfriend must be rich and have good taste.

They're perfect for each other.

Well,

do you want to know

what her boyfriend looks like?

Don't be ridiculous. I'm not.

Look at you.

You're obviously jealous of her boyfriend.

But in another 20 years,

you might be able to drive this car too.

But, by then,

this car might not be so special.

I don't care.

Wait!

Nine yuan.

Duan Bowen, wait for me.

Hurry up.

Chi-zi, you're here.

Hi, Sanshui.

Is the new issue here?

I've got it covered for you.

Good.

Here you go.

Thank you.

Duan Bowen,

aren't you going to buy the new issue?

It's boring.

I already knew the ending,

so I stopped watching.

If you don't want to buy it, don't look it up.

No,

I don't bother with him.

Are you sure you don't want to stay at my place for a few days?

Let's wait for Uncle Duan's return.

No need.

Then call me if you need anything.

Do you girls like boys who drive Land Rovers?

Not really.

Everyone's preferences are different.

If it's someone I like.

Even if he drove a tractor,

I'd still think he was particularly handsome.

See you tomorrow.

Duan Bowen,

Do you like tractors?

Sanshui said you know me.

Do you study in the Sky High too?

Yes.

Who are you?

The person you see every day.

Every day?

Duan Bowen, aren't you going to buy the new issue?

It's boring. I already knew the ending.

Guess what happened after Hu Yidao fell off the cliff.

Saved by the heroine.

How do you know?

Oh, no.

Wait a second.

Hello, your delivery has arrived.

Okay, thanks. Bye.

Wash your hands and eat.

I'm not hungry.

It's late. What are you doing?

Are you going to mess with Yu again?

Mess?

They're no match for you in that respect.

I gotta wonder if your father was hidden

by the mother and daughter of Yu.

I suggest you better go to the hospital.

You know I'm sick.

I'm sick because of you and your father.

Then you can divorce my father.

It's a good way to go.

Get out of the way. Thank you.

Are you okay, buddy?

Do you want me to take you to the hospital?

Suan Le Bar

Get in and have another drink.

Okay, I'm gonna get you drunk today.

You're the one who's drunk.

What are you doing?

Come on, come on.

What are you doing? I'm going home.

I'll keep you company.

Help! Help!

Let me keep you company.

Help! Help! Help!

Let her go.

Who are you?

I'm her brother.

Are you sure you're not?

What?

You're Hengdao, aren't you?

I see you every day.

And you said you wrote this book for...

Chi-zi. Good morning.

Good morning.

What are you two talking about?

Nothing.

What the hell are you talking about?

You said you wrote this book for me.

Are you nuts?

Are you messing with someone?

I think he's fooling you.

Are you really not Hengdao?

Am I that boring?

Then who is Hengdao?

How do I know?

Oh, my God, Princess Sisi.

Why do you have such heavy dark circles under your eyes?

It's okay.

I practiced the piano too late last night.

The test is coming up.

Just ignore him.

He's acting up again.

Scarlett, I'm really curious about him.

Then you should ask him to meet you.

Is that okay?

What's wrong with that?

Maybe it's a handsome guy.

I'm going to ask him to meet me at the beach tonight.

Will you come with me?

But, darling, I have to practice today.

The piano test is coming up.

All right.

Yu Chi-zi

Did you give me the class fee?

I did.

Your name is not here.

What are you listening to?

Wild World.

Such retro music.

Give it back to me.

By the way, why did you go to the Suan Le Bar last night?

You can go to the bar and practice piano.

Can't I just go to dance there?

I know you're curious about me now.

Will you stop being so mean?

It's a disease. You have to treat it.

What are you two talking about?

We were just talking about whether your Hengdao is a handsome guy.

It doesn't matter if he's handsome or not.

What I value is personality.

Duan Jianguo, open the door!

Open up!

Open the door!

The owner is back.

How can I open it if you're in the way?

Don't think I don't know what you guys are up to.

Isn't your major in theater?

Since when did you become a spy?

What's wrong with my major?

Jianguo likes to hear me sing.

You're not happy about that?

Not at all.

Then you'd better take him home

and sing to him every day.

What are you looking at?

Get out of the way.

Get out of the way.

Let's go.

I asked for Stewed Pear Rock Candy. What are you giving me here?

My grandmother didn't hear it correctly.

Why are you still in business when you're old and unable to hear?

I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

If you do this again,

I will never come back.

Then don't come.

We're a small business, can't serve you lady.

How did you say that?

You took the wrong food and ate it,

then pick a fight after ate up.

You did it on purpose, didn't you?

How do I know I'm taking the wrong thing

if I don't eat it?

Auntie,

you don't have to eat it all, do you?

You can't afford it, I can pay it for you.

I don't need that.

I can afford to pay it.

Chi-zi. Here, for you.

Okay, thank you.

You know,

you can't be weak anymore.

Some people tend to bully the powerless ones.

You have to learn from me.

Look, Grandma's got my back.

Yes, yes.

Thank you.

Have you ever met Hengdao?

No, no.

Yeah, he's so mysterious.

How could he show up so easily?

But how do you know him?

I always go to the magazine,

so I asked the people there.

If you know who he is,

would you like him?

It depends.

Depends on what?

Take a guess.

I'm leaving.

Grandma, I'm going. The sugar water is good.

Bye. Grandma, bye.

Hi there.

Hello.

How do you know?

Did we meet today?

Do you know who I am?

I know, Yu Chi-zi. Do you want to see me?

Miss Li.

Why are you here?

I...

Yu's house is next door. I was just passing by.

You should go home early.

If you're a man, don't follow me.

Miss Li.

I'm just going home.

I'm sorry.

I thought it was a friend of mine.

Who won, Scarlett or Han Kaka?

Excuse me, please. Thank you.

The First Stage of the Student Union President Election Han Kaka, Scarlett, Zhang Yajun, Deng Xiyun, Zhang Kai, Ding Lu, Zhang Peng

Sisi.

Sisi, are you okay?

I'm fine.

It's okay. It's just the preliminary round.

We don't know who will win in the end.

The votes were not far apart.

Let's do some more publicity.

We'll definitely overtake that Han Kaka.

Too many secrets, not enough memory, stop updating here before deleting you completely.

You're not leaving?

I've got something to do. You can go first.

What are you doing? I'll go with you.

I'm going to a cyber cafe to play Warcraft.

Then I won't go, or I'll be bored to death.

What?

Gift.

You didn't forget, did you?

I'm mad at you for doing this.

Every year on your birthday,

I prepare a gift for you a month in advance.

Well, that's very kind of you.

Happy birthday to me.

Happy birthday, Duan Bowen.

Thank you.

This is the first tooth you lost.

Isn't it monumental?

Happy birthday to me.

Happy birthday, Duan Bowen.

Thank you.

This is what you wore when you first fought for me.

I've always treasured it.

What is this?

Birthday gift?

I don't know.

It's the first pair of open pants in your life.

I'm there for you in every moment of growth.

Happy birthday.

Look! Look!

Duan Bowen's open pants.

Open pants.

I am impressed as hell with you.

Well, I didn't forget your birthday gift.

I knew you wouldn't forget.

Let's have dinner at my home tonight.

Genki.

Come to my house today and do homework.

My mother's not home. She's gone to America.

I was scared to be home alone.

But...

Still need Duan's approval?

I didn't know you two were a couple.

Go home early after your homework. I want to copy your physics homework.

I'm done with math.

Do you want to take a look at it?

Thank you, Miss Genki.

Miss Genki.

Are we good friends?

Of course.

Then let me ask you a question.

You have to be honest with me.

Sure.

Do you like Duan Bowen?

Why are you asking me that?

Nothing.

There's a girl who wants to be his girlfriend,

and asked me about him.

You tell her to stay away from him.

You're talking as if Duan is your boyfriend.

Duan Bowen is not ugly,

and he plays basketball well.

It's normal for girls to like him.

But he seems to be very picky.

He's my boyfriend.

So, did he kiss you?

You have to kiss

on the lips to count.

You can guess for yourself.

I'm going home.

Sometimes

the best friends between girls

are the ones who lend their ears to you

and hear you tell all your secrets

then go public with it.

To put it bluntly, it's a scam.

So, I had to learn to keep my secret.

And the surface of the secret is a lie.

And the surface of the lie

is to retain what little dignity remains.

Shame in the Sky High- Han Kaka. Big Scandal

"Secret Fruit",

may feel

sweet and sour.

"Secret Fruit" secret.

I think it's, supposedly literally,

the fruit of the secret.

If there is a secret in your heart,

it will always be particularly depressing,

because this tangled process is the one that will make you grow.

When I'm facing someone I like,

I don't take the initiative to chase her,

I just look at her secretly,

and then find the opportunity to talk to her

It was a long time ago,

when we were still in school,

and I thought he was a tall, handsome boy.

I keep everything in my mind,

I don't dare say it to her,

I think if I express it intuitively to her,

it's embarrassing

if she turn me down.

If the relationship between two people is over,

just start over.

If we can be friends, let's be friends.

If we can't be friends, let's be ordinary classmates.

It was late every time we finished rollerblading,

and the road home was long,

that time was supposed to be my most wonderful time.

The city wasn't very well built back then,

and there weren't many street lights.

Every time I say: it's too dark, I can't see.

The slower the footsteps, the happier I got,

so every time we go home,

time is infinitely stretched.

Sometimes at the rink,

it ends at 7:00, and it takes about 2 hours for us to get home,

but it still feels like time goes by so fast.

No matter what excuses are made,

time still goes by so fast.

This secret has been kept for a long time,

for me he is a knot in my heart,

I had a crush on a boy

in my freshman year of college.

It started

as a crush,

but it turned into a clear one.

I went to see him every day,

and gradually,

after getting used to it, he liked me.

That's it,

seeing someone every day,

and then one day

I didn't go, and he must have thought: hey, why didn't she come.

And then it became that he would actively

try to get to me.

This kind of friend who was close

and ended up splitting up over a fight may not have been a real friend in the first place.