你认可包办婚姻吗
nǐ rèn kě bāo bàn hūn yīn ma
你觉得咱们俩结婚
nǐ jué de zán men liǎ jié hūn
上中学的时候我就跟斯允承诺过
shàng zhōng xué de shí hòu wǒ jiù gēn sī yǔn chéng nuò guò
我要让她成为
wǒ yào ràng tā chéng wéi
全上海最幸福的新娘
quán shàng hǎi zuì xìng fú de xīn niáng
那会儿大家听了都笑话我
nà huì er dà jiā tīng le doū xiào huà wǒ
但是我是认真的
dàn shì wǒ shì rèn zhēn de
后来出国留学其实很大一部分
hòu lái chū guó liú xué qí shí hěn dà yī bù fèn
也是因为斯允
yě shì yīn wèi sī yǔn
想着两个人一块出国
xiǎng zhe liǎng gè rén yí kuài chū guó
能互相有个照应
néng hù xiāng yoǔ gè zhào yìng
但是没想到
dàn shì méi xiǎng dào
她去了德国 我去了美国
tā qù le dé guó wǒ qù le měi guó
女孩子一个人在国外
nǚ hái zi yí ge rén zài guó wài
肯定比我多受不少苦
kěn dìng bǐ wǒ duō shoù bù shǎo kǔ
包办婚姻我是不赞成的
bāo bàn hūn yīn wǒ shì bù zàn chéng de
能不能给我乔世俊一个机会
néng bù néng gěi wǒ qiáo shì jùn yí gè jī huì
我们俩重新认识一下
wǒ men liǎ chóng xīn rèn shi yī xià
Shijun,
long time no see.
You've studied abroad too.
Do you approve of arranged marriages?
Do you think we could be happy
if we got married?
When I was in middle school,
I promised Siyun
that I would make her
the happiest bride in Shanghai.
Everyone laughed at me back then,
but I meant it.
A big reason I went to study abroad later
was actually because of Siyun.
I thought we could go together
and look out for each other.
But I never expected
she would go to Germany
while I went to America.
A girl alone in a foreign country
must have suffered much more than I did.
I don't approve of arranged marriages.
But Siyun,
could you give me, Qiao Shijun, a chance?
Let's get to know each other again.
Yes, of course.
Well said.
Marriage is a big deal,
and it should be decided by parents.
Do you remember
when you two were kids, building blocks
Shijun,
long time no see.
You've studied abroad too.
Do you approve of arranged marriages?
你认可包办婚姻吗
nǐ rèn kě bāo bàn hūn yīn ma
你觉得咱们俩结婚
nǐ jué de zán men liǎ jié hūn
Do you think we could be happy
if we got married?
能幸福吗
néng xìng fú ma
When I was in middle school,
I promised Siyun
上中学的时候我就跟斯允承诺过
shàng zhōng xué de shí hòu wǒ jiù gēn sī yǔn chéng nuò guò
我要让她成为
wǒ yào ràng tā chéng wéi
that I would make her
全上海最幸福的新娘
quán shàng hǎi zuì xìng fú de xīn niáng
the happiest bride in Shanghai.
那会儿大家听了都笑话我
nà huì er dà jiā tīng le doū xiào huà wǒ
Everyone laughed at me back then,
但是我是认真的
dàn shì wǒ shì rèn zhēn de
but I meant it.
A big reason I went to study abroad later
后来出国留学其实很大一部分
hòu lái chū guó liú xué qí shí hěn dà yī bù fèn
was actually because of Siyun.
也是因为斯允
yě shì yīn wèi sī yǔn
I thought we could go together
想着两个人一块出国
xiǎng zhe liǎng gè rén yí kuài chū guó
能互相有个照应
néng hù xiāng yoǔ gè zhào yìng
and look out for each other.
但是没想到
dàn shì méi xiǎng dào
But I never expected
她去了德国 我去了美国
tā qù le dé guó wǒ qù le měi guó
she would go to Germany
while I went to America.
女孩子一个人在国外
nǚ hái zi yí ge rén zài guó wài
A girl alone in a foreign country
must have suffered much more than I did.
肯定比我多受不少苦
kěn dìng bǐ wǒ duō shoù bù shǎo kǔ
包办婚姻我是不赞成的
bāo bàn hūn yīn wǒ shì bù zàn chéng de
I don't approve of arranged marriages.
But Siyun,
但是 斯允
dàn shì sī yǔn
能不能给我乔世俊一个机会
néng bù néng gěi wǒ qiáo shì jùn yí gè jī huì
could you give me, Qiao Shijun, a chance?
Let's get to know each other again.
我们俩重新认识一下
wǒ men liǎ chóng xīn rèn shi yī xià
能能能
néng néng néng
Yes, of course.
Well said.
Marriage is a big deal,
and it should be decided by parents.
Do you remember
when you two were kids, building blocks