让自己遗憾的事情
ràng zì jǐ yí hàn de shì qíng
而且男人有的时候
ér qiě nán rén yǒu de shí hòu
你是得给他留点儿面子的
nǐ shì de gěi tā liú diǎn er miàn zi de
您就没有埋怨过吴次长吗
nín jiù méi yǒu mán yuàn guò wú cì zhǎng ma
当然有埋怨过了
dāng rán yoǔ mán yuàn guò le
只要他好 孩子好
zhǐ yào tā hǎo hái zi hǎo
我自己怎么样
wǒ zì jǐ zěn me yàng
我也希望我能够像您这样
wǒ yě xī wàng wǒ néng gòu xiàng nín zhè yàng
但是我做不到
dàn shì wǒ zuò bù dào
没事没事没事
méi shì méi shì méi shì
我一想到他骗我
wǒ yī xiǎng dào tā piàn wǒ
我就很生气
wǒ jiù hěn shēng qì
我想到他让我跟孩子分开
wǒ xiǎng dào tā ràng wǒ gēn hái zi fēn kāi
and your relationship hasn't been easy.
Life is so short,
just a few decades.
Don't do anything
that will make you regret it.
And sometimes, with a man,
you have to give him some face.
Madam,
over all these years,
have you ever complained about Mr. Wu?
Yes.
Of course I have.
But he is my...
He's my husband.
As long as
he is well and the child is well,
it doesn't matter
what happens to me.
I wish I could be like you.
I've tried,
but I just can't.
It's okay, Mei.
It's okay.
I get so angry
when I think about him lying to me.
Thinking about him
keeping me apart from my child—
it hurts so much.
There, there.
I miss my child so much.
and your relationship hasn't been easy.
Life is so short,
just a few decades.
Don't do anything
that will make you regret it.
让自己遗憾的事情
ràng zì jǐ yí hàn de shì qíng
And sometimes, with a man,
而且男人有的时候
ér qiě nán rén yǒu de shí hòu
you have to give him some face.
你是得给他留点儿面子的
nǐ shì de gěi tā liú diǎn er miàn zi de
Madam,
师母
shī mǔ
over all these years,
这么多年
zhè me duō nián
have you ever complained about Mr. Wu?
您就没有埋怨过吴次长吗
nín jiù méi yǒu mán yuàn guò wú cì zhǎng ma
Yes.
有
yoǔ
Of course I have.
当然有埋怨过了
dāng rán yoǔ mán yuàn guò le
但他是我
dàn tā shì wǒ
But he is my...
He's my husband.
是我先生
shì wǒ xiān shēng
只要他好 孩子好
zhǐ yào tā hǎo hái zi hǎo
As long as
he is well and the child is well,
it doesn't matter
我自己怎么样
wǒ zì jǐ zěn me yàng
不重要
bù zhòng yào
what happens to me.
I wish I could be like you.
我也希望我能够像您这样
wǒ yě xī wàng wǒ néng gòu xiàng nín zhè yàng
I've tried,
我也努力了
wǒ yě nǔ lì le
but I just can't.
但是我做不到
dàn shì wǒ zuò bù dào
It's okay, Mei.
好了 阿美
hǎo le ā měi
It's okay.
没事没事没事
méi shì méi shì méi shì
I get so angry
我一想到他骗我
wǒ yī xiǎng dào tā piàn wǒ
when I think about him lying to me.
我就很生气
wǒ jiù hěn shēng qì
Thinking about him
keeping me apart from my child—
我想到他让我跟孩子分开
wǒ xiǎng dào tā ràng wǒ gēn hái zi fēn kāi
it hurts so much.
There, there.
I miss my child so much.